The idea of everyone being on different timelines or "clocks" has been on my mind for awhile now. Everyone goes at their own speed in college, in getting their dream job, to get married, and so much more. I'm 21 and in my senior year of college. I'll graduate this December just before turning 22. I know people who are in college and older than me. I know friends who already have their dream job and are in their early 20's. Many of my friends and people I went to school with are married, some who are younger than me. And that is all okay, it's normal to go by your own time and not rush to finish college, get married, or get your dream job.
Just the other night I saw an old friend who just got back from her mission. We got on the topic of school and how much longer I had left. When I told her I graduate this semester, her jaw nearly dropped. We’re around the same age and she’s only done a semester or two of college whereas I’ll be finished with college one semester after this spring. She was shocked that I’ve completed so much school and am so close to graduating. My point is, our clocks look different than everyone else's.
It can be difficult when you look around and think you're behind others, or you might be ahead of others. But we aren't all running on the same clock. Some clocks are slower than others, some are faster. We all go at our own pace and the events and things in our lives happen according to our time. It doesn't all happen according to one clock. Your time will come to get your dream job. While you may be waiting for your time to finally come, you will miss out on other opportunities and things that come your way. Be patient and wait for your time to come. Much of it has to do with what The Lord has in store for you and HIs timing. I had all sorts of ideas in my head of what my timeline looked like and when I’d accomplish various things. Needless to say nothing has gone according to my plan and the timing I had in mind. But ya know what? It’s turned out even better than I could have ever imagined! As I’ve allowed The Lord to take control of my “clock” and set it’s pace, everything has worked out better for me and with my best interest in mind too.
I've seen this quote about our different clocks many times and it speaks to me each time I see it:
"I know people who graduated college at 21, and didn't get a salary job until they were 27. I know people who graduated at 25 and already had a salary job. I know people who have children and are single. I know people who are married and had to wait 8-10 years to be parents. I know people who are in a relationship and love someone else. I know people who love each other and aren't together. There are people waiting to love and be loved. My point is, everything in life happens according to our time, our clock. You may look at your friends and some may seem to be ahead or behind you, but they're not. They're living according to the pace of their clock, so be patient. You're not falling behind, it's just not your time."
- Julissa Loaiza
Just remember to be patient and don’t get discouraged when you look around and see others who seem to be “beating” you to certain milestones or events in life. They’re on a different clock than you.You’ll hit that “time” in your life when it’s right for you. For now just keep running to the time of your own clock and being you. One day it will be your time.
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